hlo,
Dosto mai apko batta rha hu ki agar apko kio ladki pasand hai toh uss se kessa chat krekol
Agar aapko ek ladki bahut pasand hai
aur aap use apna banana chahte hai par aap use jante nhi hai sirf use
dekha hai aur uske deewane se ho gye ho lekin ab aapko samajh nhi aa rha
ki us ladki se kaise baat karu aur kya baat karu to ab
khush ho jayiye :). Ji haan, khush isliye kyunki ab Main, yaani ki
aapki best friend Shivshi aapki is problem ko hamesha ke liye solve
karne waali hai. I guarantee ki, Main jo yha btane waali hu agar aap vo
sab theek se samajh gaye to aap bade aaram se kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat aur dosti kar sakte ho . Bas to ab jo main bta rhi hu use dhyan se padho aur samjho, agar kuch kar rhe ho to use chodo aur apna pura dhyan yha lagao.
Kisi unknown ladki se baat karna jyadatar
logon ke liye bhut hi jyada challenging kaam hai. Jabki kuch log ye
kaam badi aasani se kar lete hai. Agar aap bhi kisi anjan ladki se baat karne me ajeeb mehsoos karte ho aur ladki ke saamne jaate hi aapki dhadkane badh jaati hai, aapki body language bigad jaati hai aur paseena aane lagta hai
to sabse pahle ye jaan lo ki is baat ki jra bhi tension lene ki jrurat
nhi. Ye cheez bhut hi commom hai, aisa sirf aapke saath hi nhi hota,
balki har dusra insan aisa hi feel karta hai. So isme fikar karne wali
koi baat nhi .
Asal me, ladki ko approach karne ka koi secret nhi hai.
Bas kuch cheeze hai jo aapko theek se karni hoti hai aur fir chances
hote hai ki jis ladki se aap dosti karna chahte hai vo aapko positive
response de. Aapko bas kuch baato ka khyal rakhna hai. Jaise ki, vo
ladki aapko goli nhi maregi isliye aapko darne ki jrurat nhi hai. Dusri
baat ladki ko darpok kisam ke ladke bilkul pasand nhi hote so aap
ghabrao mat aur confidence me raho. Jo log ye kaam aasani se kar lete hai unhe koi jaadu nhi aata hota, bas vo apne aap ko shi tarah se present karte hai aur aap bhi vo aasani se kar sakte ho. Bas ek baat hamesha yaad rakho..
Pasand Ki Ladki Se Dosti & Friendship karne Ke Best Tips
Agar aapko ek ladki bahut pasand hai
aur aap use apna banana chahte hai par aap use jante nhi hai sirf use
dekha hai aur uske deewane se ho gye ho lekin ab aapko samajh nhi aa rha
ki us ladki se kaise baat karu aur kya baat karu to ab
khush ho jayiye :). Ji haan, khush isliye kyunki ab Main, yaani ki
aapki best friend Shivshi aapki is problem ko hamesha ke liye solve
karne waali hai. I guarantee ki, Main jo yha btane waali hu agar aap vo
sab theek se samajh gaye to aap bade aaram se kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat aur dosti kar sakte ho . Bas to ab jo main bta rhi hu use dhyan se padho aur samjho, agar kuch kar rhe ho to use chodo aur apna pura dhyan yha lagao.
Kisi unknown ladki se baat karna jyadatar
logon ke liye bhut hi jyada challenging kaam hai. Jabki kuch log ye
kaam badi aasani se kar lete hai. Agar aap bhi kisi anjan ladki se baat karne me ajeeb mehsoos karte ho aur ladki ke saamne jaate hi aapki dhadkane badh jaati hai, aapki body language bigad jaati hai aur paseena aane lagta hai
to sabse pahle ye jaan lo ki is baat ki jra bhi tension lene ki jrurat
nhi. Ye cheez bhut hi commom hai, aisa sirf aapke saath hi nhi hota,
balki har dusra insan aisa hi feel karta hai. So isme fikar karne wali
koi baat nhi .
Asal me, ladki ko approach karne ka koi secret nhi hai.
Bas kuch cheeze hai jo aapko theek se karni hoti hai aur fir chances
hote hai ki jis ladki se aap dosti karna chahte hai vo aapko positive
response de. Aapko bas kuch baato ka khyal rakhna hai. Jaise ki, vo
ladki aapko goli nhi maregi isliye aapko darne ki jrurat nhi hai. Dusri
baat ladki ko darpok kisam ke ladke bilkul pasand nhi hote so aap
ghabrao mat aur confidence me raho. Jo log ye kaam aasani se kar lete hai unhe koi jaadu nhi aata hota, bas vo apne aap ko shi tarah se present karte hai aur aap bhi vo aasani se kar sakte ho. Bas ek baat hamesha yaad rakho..
Agar aap sochte ho ki aap ye kar sakte ho to aap vo badi aasani se kar loge. Agar aapko lagta hai ki ye aapse nhi hoga to fir vo aapse ho hi nhi sakta
Kahne ka matlab hai sab kuch aapke upar
hai. Agar aapme us ladki ko paane ka junoon aur chahat hai aur aap use
kisi bhi haal me paana chahte ho to aapko vo jarur milegi varna vo nhi
milne wali. Positive rehna bhut jruri hai. To chalo ab shuru karte hai.
1> Use Dikhao Ki Tum Use Dekh Rahe Ho
Jab aapko aisi ladki se baat karni hai
jo bilkul anjan hai so sabse pahle use dekho, use ye baat pta chalni
chahiye ki tum use dekh rhe ho, agar usne ye baat notice kar li ki tum
uski tara dekh rhe ho to samajh lo bina kuch kahe tumhari baat shuru ho
gyi. Lekin ek baat ka khyal rahe ki use dekhna hai goorna nhi. Bas halke se uski taraf najre karo
aur jaise hi vo tumhari taraf dekhe, ek second ke liye eye contact karo
aur fir khi aur dekhne lag jaao. Fir dekho aur fir jaise hi vo dekhe
tum yha vha dekhne lag jaao. Aisa agle din bhi karo, use dekho aur fir
najre hta lo. Vo bhi tumhari taraf jrur dekhegi. Kisi bhi haal me
ghabrana nhi aur mast attitude me rehna. Use pakka yakeen ho jaana
chahiye ki tum use dekh rhe the.
2. Eye Contact & Smile
Ab uske saath eye contact hone do, ab
thodi jyada der ke liye najre milao, eye contact maintain karne ki
kosish karo. Agar 3-4 baar uske saath eye contact ho gya to samjho
response positive hai. Agr baar baar aapka eye contact ho rha hai to bas
samajh lo ki ladki chahti hai ki aap uske paas jaa kar baat karo. 3-4 baar ladki ka aapki taraf dekhna aur eye contact hone ka matlab hai ki vo bhi interested hai.
Smile : Ek halki si
smile ye btane ke liye kaafi hai ki aap usme interested ho. Uski tarah
dekhte huye halka sa smile karo, agr vo bhi smile karti hai to matlab vo
bhi interested hai. 2-4 baar aisa hone par uski body language
dekho. ladki ki body language se aapko saaf saaf pta chal jayega agar vo
sach me aapse baat karna chahti hai.
3. Ladki Ki Body Language
Halanki kisi ki body language se sab
kuch nhi jaana ja sakta par kuch behavior se bahut kuch pata chal jaata
hai. Body language se aapko ye bahut aasani se pta chal jaata hai ki koi
aapse baat karne me interested hai ya nhi.
- Kya vo tumhari taraf dekh bhi nhi rhi ? Kya uske haath ek dusre me bande huye hai? Kya vo music sun rhi hai ya book padh rhi hai? Kya vo gusse wala muh bana rhi hai? Kya vo ye jante huye bhi ki tum uski taraf dekh rhe ho, tumhari taraf dekh bhi nhi rhi? Agar is tarah ke sign ladki dikha rhi hai to ho sakta hai vo kehna chahti hai ki use ye sab pasand nhi hai aur tum uski taraf na dekho aur use tumme koi interest nhi hai.
- Lekin, body language hi sab kuch nhi hote. Apne yha gharon me bachon ko sanskar diye jaate hai jo humare sanskriti ki sabse achi bat hai. Ladkiyo ko samjhaya jaata hai ki kisi se faltu baat nhi karna, koi dekhe to uski taraf mat dekhna aur aur koi preshan kare to ghar par batan. So ho sakta hai vo is karan bhi vaise body language show kar rhi ho.
Agar aap ab bhi usse baat karne chahte
ho to dhyan se dekho vo kaisa react karti hai aur suno ki kya kehti hai
aur agar vo aapse koi baat nhi karna chahti aur akele rehna chahti hai
to aapko uski baat samajhni chahiye aur uski feelings ki respect karni
chahiye.
4. Ladki Se Baat karo
Ab baari aati hai asli challenge ki. Bahut logon ko ladki se baat me Nervousness hoti hai. Agar
aap bhi unme se ek ho to meri ek baat theek se samajh lo… Asal me kisi
bhi ladki se baat karna utna muskil nhi hai jitna aap samajhte ho. Aapka
dimag hjaar taraf ki baate sochne lagta hai ki agar use acha nhi laga to vo kya kregi
agr use bura laga to kuch panga na ho jaaye, ye na ho jaaye, vo na ho
jaaye. Aisi hi bhut si baate aapke dimag me aane lagti hai. Iska ek hi
solution hai…. Pahle se hi soch lo ki usse baat karni hai ya nhi, agr
nhi karni tab to baat hi khatam aur agar baat karni hai to soch lo ki kya baat karni hai.
Ek baar decide kar liya bas fir uske baad kuch mat socho. Dimag me aisi
vaisi baat aayegi unki tarah dhyaan hi mat do. Bas us ladki ke baare me
socho aur relax raho.
Ghabrana sabse badi bevkoofi hai. Suna hai na ki, Pyar Kiya to Darna Kya. Ek
baat yaad rakhna jo insaan apni Dil ki baat batate huye ghabrata hai,
darta hai ya Sir se paao tak pasine me tar batar ho jaata hai use vo
ladki kabhi nhi milne waali. So agar aap us ladki ko apni dost banana
chahte ho to ye sab chodna hoga jo ki bahut aasan hai. Ladki chahti hai
ki jis ladke se vo friendship kare, pyar kare vo bold ho, apni Dil ki
baat khul kar suke saamne ki himmat rakhta ho. Aur agar aap isi point me
fail ho gaye to use paana muskil hi nhi Namumkin ho jayega.
▼ Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Topic
Jaisa ki maine pahle kha ladki se baat karne ke liye kisi special talent ki jarurat nhi hai,
bas aap me himmat honi chahiye, face par halki si smile, achi si
personality aur muh me aawaz honi chahiye. Aur mujhe pura yakeen hai aap
me ye sab gun hai, so aap bhi ye kaam badi aasani se kar sakte ho. Kyi
logon me himmat to hoti hai par baat kya karni hai unhe ye nhi samajh
aata to jrur padhe. Yha aapko detail me topics bhi mil jayenge aur tarika bhi pta chalega. Kuch cheeze main yha bhi btati hu..
Uske paas jaa kar, smile ke saath ache se `Hii…` bolo. Ho sakta hai vo kuch jawab na de, fir se bolo – `Helloo..` vo jrur bolegi `Hanji…!?`
Ab aap halke se smile ke saath situation ke hisab se, uske baare me
aapko jo bhi jaankari hai usse related ya uske hisab se kuch bhi pucho.
Jaise ki..
- Aap khi job karti ho ?
- Aapka naam kya hai ?
- Aap konse school / college me ho ?
- Aapse kuch baat karni thi.
- Aap B.Tech kar rhi ho ?
- Aap XYZ Nagar me rehti ho ?
- Aap pahle XYZ school me padhti thi ?
- Aap Shivani ki friend ho ?
- Maine aapko khi dekha hai ?
- Aap pahle Call Center me kaam karti thi ?
- Aap Kha rahti ho ?
- Aap Delhi se ho ?
- Aap Robin ki Sister ho ?
Jab aap ye questions ya apna hi koi sawal ladki se puchoge to vo saamne se ye jrur puchegi ki – `Aapko isse kya?`, `Aap ye kyu puch rhe ho`, `Aapko isse kya matlab` tab aap soch samajh ke jaldi se kuch acha sa jawab do taaki vo aapse baat karna shuru kare. Yha aapko apni intelligence dikhani hai ki aap kitne intelligent ho. Sab kuch maine aapko point to point bta diya bas ye aapko khud sochna hai.
Is tarah ke kisi bhi topic par usse koi normal sa sawal pucho. Direct ye mat bolo ki – `Mujhe aap bahut pasand ho, kya aap mujhse friendship karogi?`
Pahle ladki se dosti karo, use jaano aur uske interests ke baare me pta
karo. Ho sakta hai uske baare me janne ke baad, uska behaviour aur uski
thinking samajhne ke baad aap khud uske saath friendship na karna
chaho, so direct propose karne ki bjaye pahle ek dusre ko jaano aur
samjho. Aur agar sab theek lagta hai and aapko lagta hai ki aap dono ki
relationship achi ho sakti hai, aap dono ek dusre ke saath khush reh
sakte ho to use propose karo. Propose kaise kare ke baare me janne ke
liye padho.
Most important baat :
Agar ladki positive response nhi deti ya aapse baat karne me interest
nhi dikhati to aapko uski feelings ki kadar karni chahiye aur piche hat
jaana chahiye. Jabardasti karke apne aur uske liye problems khadi karna
mha bevkoofi hai. Alag ladki ka ladko me alag taste hota hai, jaise
ladko ka ladkiyo ke liye hota hai. Ek ladki ko lag sakta hai ki aap uske
type ke nhi ho. Vhi ho sakta hai kisi dusri ladki ko ye lagta ho ki – `Aap hi uske sapno ke Rajkumar ho ♥`
Ek aur jruri baat…. Agar aap kisi ladki ko pasand karte ho aur use impress karna chahte ho to aapko apne aap ko Fit aur Healthy rakhne ki shakht jrurat hai.
Koi bhi ladki aise ladke se dosti karna jyada pasand karti hai jo Fit
ho, jiski personality achi ho, dhang ke kapde pehanta ho aur himmat wala
ho. Ladki nhi chahegi ki uske boyfriend ka pet nikla ho aur uski sab
saheliyan uska majak udaaye. Vaise bhi sabko fit rehna chahiye chahe
ladki ptani ho ya na ho. Apne aap ko fit aur attractive rahne ke liye ye jarur padho aur diye tips ko follow karo.
Friends, Anjan Ladki Se Baat Shuru Kaise Kare
aur friendship kaise kare topic ke liye ye best tips hai. Ab ye aapke
upar hai aap inhe kitna samajhte ho aur kaise impleent karte ho. Main to
bas ye chahti hu ki sab khush rahe, sukhi rahe. Ek friend ne totally
unknown ladki ke saath ek hi din me dosti aur Friendship ki. Apne mature
behaviour aur confidence ke dum par next day usne ladki ko Kiss kiya
aur uske saath Sex bhi kiya. Agar aap soch rhe ho kaise ? to ye padh
sakte ho
Actually, it’s all about your thinking. Simple sa fact hai, Agar aap
apne aap ko hi nalayak manoge to koi dusra aapko intelligent kaise maan
sakta hai. So Dear friend agar aap duniya jeetna chahte ho to aapko
Sikandar khud banna padega. to vo aapko apne efforts se hi mil sakti hai. Main aapko rasta dikha sakti hu, Kila aapko khud fateh karna hai. आप 
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